- “There’s a difference between having meaning and meaningful pursuits. If you lost the pursuit in your life, that is the difference between the comfortable life and the charged life.”
- In this episode, Brendon dives into the process of uncovering what truly matters to you and how to align your pursuits with your values and aspirations.
- “What’s the pursuit? What’s that contribution you’re going to go after?”
- If you’re looking for tips for developing meaningful pursuits for a more intentional and happy life, this episode is for you!
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Everyone gets this wrong in personal development. They just haven’t done the work. They tell you what you want to mean. That’s how you know, a beginner in personal development versus the pros. I know a lot of people who have meaning in their life. They have a great job. They’ve got two great kids. They have amazing spouses or partners. They’re doing something. Some of you guys know, I actually started my first seminars for nonprofit leaders, if you didn’t know. My first real seminars were teaching non-profits how to partner with entrepreneurs to raise more money and entrepreneurs, how to partner with nonprofits to spread a message or be part of a mission. Those are my first seminars. We’re going nonprofits. Do you know any nonprofit leaders around this world who still call me every single week? They’re nonprofit leaders and they’re unhappy. They’re saving lives in other countries, and they’re unhappy.
1. You Have To Pursue Meaning
And when we get into it, like, what’s going on there?
There’s a difference between meaning having meaning or generating meaning and meaningful pursuits.
If let me tell you this, if you lost the pursuit in your life, that’s the difference between the comfortable life and the charged life, the pursuit, the pursuit of something greater or harder. The challenge, the push, that part where you have to extend yourself beyond the comfort into the demand. It makes you feel alive. It makes you find flow and challenge and difficulty of contribution. If contribution is too easy for you, the meaning will never make you feel fulfilled. Say it again. If your contribution is too easy for you, the meaning that you could have there will never make you feel fulfilled. You always wonder, Why am I not fulfilled? Because you’re doing something that is too easy for you.
2. Are Your Pursuits Too Easy For You?
The human psyche drives competence and the development of that competence, as we will talk about in a moment. So I know amazing people. They don’t feel fulfilled because they lost the hunt. That’s what we call it in Montana. Other metaphors. Someone help me out on the hunt. The pursuit. Right? You’re not driving for something anymore. You’re doing something, but you’re not. Drive. And for something that matters, you live. Love matter. You got to drive something that matters to you. If it doesn’t matter to you, it can be so meaningful and you can be doing something meaningful. But if you’re not stretching it, there’s no pursuit. We lost the edge, and soon as we lost the edge, we’re back to the comfortable life and we don’t know why. And then we’re bored and then we’re disconnected.
3. Pursue Things That Matter To You
And then we’re in the cage and then we’re resentful and then we’re bitter. And then we think those bastards don’t understand. And we’re the animal in the back of the cage. Whoa! This is so important.
What’s the pursuit? What’s that contribution you’re going to go after?
It might be a little outside your comfort zone. It might be a little bit much. And I know people get really hooked on the contribution word. Does that mean I need to change the world? I’m like, “No, no.”
4. There Are Many Different Ways To Contribute
Listen, there can be creative contributions. Making art is a contribution, right? Giving serving. Yeah. You can write checks, and you can volunteer, but volunteerism isn’t the only way of contributing. Contributing, sometimes being an unbelievable mom contributing sometimes means getting involved locally in contributing, sometimes being a great leader at work where you stop just doing your work and you see the other people at work and you work together and you’re pursuing something that the drive that a lot of companies want to work with. I’m like, I owe you all lost your pursuit. You became an organizational, stagnant company. There’s no pursuit. There’s no edge there anymore. We’ve got to get that performance edge back in the culture and also in people like Move, They’re alive again.